Well where do I begin..
I use to be a member here a while ago, {bookworm}
In the time I was a member lot has happened.
My husband emptied our bank account and left. We got a divorce. My girls and I have been doing okay till 2 months ago, Now their father has a new lady who does not have or want kids. So my husband let me know he does not want to see the girls anymore.
Please pray for my girls as I need to tell them and pray for me that I can do it.
My heart is broken but not for me for my babies.
deb you and your babies are in my thoughts and prayers.......i pray that god protects you and gives your heart peace......hugs and prayers from texas.....
I am so sorry to hear this. My heart goes out to you and your girls. I will be lifting you and the girls up in prayer. I pray that God will give to you all the wisdom, tenderness and love you will surely need to do this. My God richly bless your family. HUGS!!!
You all are certainly in prayers. You have really had a difficult time with your first husband dying last year and now this husband leaving. My thoughts and prayers go out to your children
I'd make hubby tell them, he' is the one who wants to stop; seeing them, he should be the one to explain why, that way they know it is Him staying away - NOT You keeping him from seeing them, if he's as big a jerk as he seems to have proven to be there is nothing stopping him from coming back in a few years wanting to see them and saying YOU were the one that kept him away and if the girls really miss him they might believe him, saldly have see it happen. You need to keep your relationship with your girls healthy and saying bad things about your hubby, regardless if they are justified, is not healthy, it will come back to bite you as they get older. Happened to my friend :(
Very sorry to hear that both your husbands are gone...Prays for your girls...If your second husband was their step-dad I would not worry about telling them anything...when they get older they will ask about him and their dad...
I will be saying a prayer for you and your girls. Someday, he may regret having no relationship with them and it will be too late so he is the loser here.