Lord knows I need it. Yesterday I went off on mom and left to come back home a day early, my back HURTS, furture mummy in lay thinks I'm not good enough for her soon and told her daughter in not so many words that I was a "crack pot" Gee thank witch. I am playing nice though. She has so much control over chad.
I have forgotten my meds a few times and had a few breakdowns and blown blood vessels in my face from sky rocketing blood pressure. Mostly it is over out budget. I made mistakes and both our mothers and my g'ma had to cover them.
G'ma strighten out my budget so were all good now. But damn if Michelle, chad's mom rips into me like she did a few days again, damn what mom and g'ma say. I will put that women in her place.
She had the nerve to try and tell me how to budget and that I can't save money. A: NO ONE tells me what to do. Not even my mom and dad do and B: No One tells me I can or can't do something.
But anyways i have a new mind set and we will get all our debit paid off.
Well I dont know if I have any extra patience and calmness, but I am willing to share what I have. My heart goes out to you with your future mother in law.
In laws can be a pain I know. Hang in there! As long as you know what you are doing is what you need to be doing and you are taking care of business, who cares what they think. Keep playing nice because it is Chads mom and no matter what, he loves her, just do your thing and try to ignore what they say. You be the better person in this. Some day they will all understand you and love you for the wonderful person you are. Chas sees it, some day they all will.
Hugs!!! and good luck.
Dear God,
I didn't think orange went with purple until I saw the sunset you made on Tuesday night.That was really cool.
It's annoying. these last 3 weks have been murder. But chad was sweet and got me some stuff for vday. So i'm playing my game and i'm gonna resolve not to go there and I refuse to ask for help again.
Randi I feel for you with your future Mother-in-Law...mine is the Monster-In-Law from hell...
My father always told me when someone is nasty and mean just kill them with kindness...She won't know what hit her...lol
The best thing to do is ignore her and not be around her...That is what I have had to do with Glen's mother...we even changed our phone number because of her...You know Glen and I have been married for almost 17 years and been together almost 22 years and I am still not good enough for him according to his mother...but that is only her opinion and that is how you have to think of Chad's mother,its only her opinion and as long as she gets a reaction out of you she will keep doing it...
Randi...my advice to you is do what you have to do to make yourself happy...
Take care Smiles & Hugs...
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May 9th,2009~2 Year SCLC Survivor... April 6th,2009~17 Year Breast Cancer Survivor...
Hey Randi, how about saying something like,"I know I'm not good enough for him, he's just the most wonderful man yet. I hope I can treat him as well as you. I know no woman is ever going to be good enough for him to you. Maybe he could just give up the idea of a wife and move home and live with you forever."
Take your meds. Concentrate on getting better.
We're here for you.
C4G my mind is evil. His mom is on his bank account. so he's switching to my bank so momy can't spy on me and how i'm spending his money...not that it matters that I don't get a single CENT of my disability check. If she called me crazy to my face, well that would be diffrent. But for my g'ma I am just never going near the women or talking to her unless mom holds a shot gun to my head. She gave me the creeps when I first meet her. I tired to play nice, but that was not good enough
I'm the best chad will ever get and she needs to smarten up and get that clue. I'm only his second GF and I'm the only one to stick around for more then 2 seconds.
All I am going to say is this women don't know what kind of b*tch she is dealing with. I think if I lived in the artic and she here, it would not be enough.
his mom lives the next street over............But as g'ma put it i am going to be playing sutb le warfare or be tactful. Usually I get in people;s faces, but this time I wont. It's just not worth it. She had better watch it or she wont be at our wedding.
Does anyone have clamness and patience to spare 
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