Pray for my daughter

08-25-2008, 04:01 AM #1 (**permalink**)

Please pray for my daughter. She is getting a divorce and he is being his usual self (evil).
He keeps threatening her. They didn't want to use lawyers. Well, all h*** broke loose yesterday. I decided to get involved. He tells a good story, but, is lying through his teeth. He is an expert liar.
He keeps telling the kids things so they will be against their mother.
I hung up on him today. That's a first for me. I can't believe I did it.
I feel my blood pressure rising again, so, I will cut this short.

Please pray that we all get through this, and are still sane. I am very worried about the children (5&3).

08-25-2008, 05:04 AM #2 (**permalink**)

Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of need.Your Daughter is a stronger woman then she thinks,hang in there.

08-25-2008, 06:11 AM #3 (**permalink**)

I'm sorry for you daughter having to go thru this. My dad tired something like this when him and mom were going thru a rough patch and she threaten to take his knee caps out if he didn't stop being a rat bas****.If i were your daughter I would get a lawyer and get a restaining order aginst the douch bag. She will be in my thoughts. Just remind her to be strong if not for herself but for the kids.

08-25-2008, 06:36 AM #4 (**permalink**)

Prayers for your daughter, grand babies and yous. I know what exactly you are talking about good lair. My ex was a professional at it. We ended up in court battling it out. He tried his hardest to make me look bad in front of the judge but the judge saw right through him. It is hard as heck. My girls were 6 and 2 when I pack up and moved in with my parents. I never turned back that day. It will be hard on everyone including you being the parent and grand parent. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers. Stay strong and God Bless.

Hugs
Leah

08-25-2008, 07:22 AM #5 (**permalink**)

my daughter is going through something very similar. I just recently moved her back to Wisconsin and far away from him. I will pray for you daughter, your grand children and all your family. Don't worry about hanging up on the putz, it is much better than a lot of things you could (and probably would like) to see happen to him (like just fading away or disappearing, lol, or perhaphs growing up and being a man and thinking what is best for the kids, what a concept huh!) Hugs all around, your family are in my thoughts and prayers!

08-25-2008, 07:58 AM #6 (**permalink**)

Prayers being said for the whole family. I too have walked in your daughter's shoes. It is an emotional hell for all involved and doesn't get any better for a long time. One word of advice for your daughter....there is no "nice" divorce no matter the best of intensions and getting a lawyer right off the bat will save her both money and heartache in the long run. With a lawyer, she can simply refuse to speak to the ex and refer him to the lawyer. Good luck to all; my thoughts are with you!

08-25-2008, 09:20 AM #7 (**permalink**)

Thank you all for your prayers and concern. He is a very controling person. She has been afraid of him from the get go. He was shocked when she stood up for herself.
Yesterday she told him she was moving back to the house. He almost had a stroke. For once he was at a loss for words. He was on the phone spittin & sputterin. Loved it! His family got after him, and he seems to have a change of heart. We'll see. DH and I are going to meet with them, and try to calmly hash this all out. At least he does respect us and our opinion.

08-25-2008, 10:03 AM #8 (**permalink**)

It makes me so mad when someone lies to children. I will definitely pray for you, your daughter and the whole situation. Just remember...what goes around comes around.

He'll get his!

08-25-2008, 11:43 AM #9 (**permalink**)

Would you believe it? The son of a gun has done a complete about face. I could wring his neck!!!